Land in the Heart of a Female - 11 Great Tips
by: Anandrahi
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In this age of freedom for friendships and dating every male yearns to learn an art to land in the heart of a female. And he wants to do it fast without going through a long series of paper love-letters, meetings, SMSs or emails. What else the men can do. They have to make careers, earn money and spend some time in grooming from hair to toe. They have limited time for wooing and outing. Don't worry. Today you are learning an art which will prove like a simple tool box which anybody can use. In the beginning you will definitely have to spend some time to grasp the art thoroughly, but later it will be smooth sailing with lots of fun.
1. Relax. Enjoy Whatever is There in Your Life
First tip may be out of water or an odd one but it is the most essential tool. Best engineer is always a relaxed one because he can use his abilities to the best of his capacity. Be grateful to God whatever he has given to you. Relax and try to enjoy every step of your life. It will paint your outlook with a confident glow. Moreover females like such men who are generally relaxed and sure of them.
2. Plan your moves
Plan your moves like a smart chess player. You need a lot of patience for it. Any foolish move may mar your chances of success. The rule: right move at the right time. That is the secret. You may get a punch on your nose if the timing of your move is wrong. And the same move can land you in the bliss of a kiss if the timing is perfect. Observe her moods and receptivity carefully.
3. Study first
Before the final assault to conquer her heart you need to study her throughly. What is her personality? What are her desires? What is her style of living? What does she seek out of a relationships? What are her hobbies? By studying her thoroughly you can get the ability to plan your moves.
4. It is Easy
Many persons think to win the heart of a woman is an Herculean task. On the contrary it is quite easy. You just have to learn the simple rules and follow them diligently. The real task will seem quite easy. Then keep in mind: nothing is impossible if you try well.
5. Never be in a Hurry
Don't be in a hurry to plant a kiss on her cheek or have sex. In many countries kissing is considered a normal gesture. You can kiss any person of opposite sex to show gratitude or appreciation. But in most of the countries kiss is still taboo till you are in love, and you have to engage in it away from public eye. In such an atmosphere if you try to kiss a female without intimacy you may get a slap on your face.
6. Provide the Proper Bait
How can a beautiful fish run towards you? What is her bait? You have to analyse her and think about the proper bait for her. The bait may be wealth, a tasty dinner in a five star hotel, a ride in your luxury car, a simple friendly conversation over a cup of coffee, a funny day out, a costly gift or a big career opportunity. In brief, she must know what she will get out of this relationship. See her need and throw your bait. The fish will be hooked.
7. Understand the Heart
You won't be able to land on any sexy heart till you are able to understand the heart of a female. It is not difficult. Engage her in conversation on various topics. See what she loves to talk about - food, games, family life, politics, kids, her hobbies, her desires, career opportunities, wealth prospectus on internet, casual friendships, etc. She may be interested in talking on a variety of topics. Engage her in conversation according to her taste (here never see what your tastes are you fool otherwise she will start napping).
8. Reach Sex Through Heart
Let's be frank. Most of the persons want to have sex as they proceed in friendship. Law of 'the opposite attracts' overpower them. But even in this modern world you can rarely have a sex with a beauty without warming her heart first. After all you are not trying to date a prostitute with whom you can go to bed straightaway, no question asked. You want to have this fun with a nice lady. And according to female psychology the only way to sex with her is through her heart. Fulfill her emotional needs and have a warm friendships. Give her roses, gifts, dinners, lunches, etc. The real door will open for your soon.
9. Flatter Her
Even if some women seem getting annoyed when flattered but the truth is that females love flattery. They want that their dress, style, haircut, or whatever they buy should be appreciated. Even an ugly duck like to be called beautiful. Find what is good or beautiful in a woman and flatter. If a woman is black see if you can tell her that 'black is sexy', or you can appreciate her eyes or hands. Every female has something that can be appreciated. You may start with simple praising words but soon graduate to flattery.
10. Shower Love Kisses
As soon as both of you come closer and become friends find opportunities to give her appreciation kisses - light and simple. She will soon start craving for more. Keep your mind open to judge it. Gradually you will be able to plant sexy kisses which will thrill her to maximum.
11. Take Care of Your Personality
This should be actually the first and foremost step you need to take. Almost every female love a male who has a good personality. A good heart never wins a female till it is packaged attractively. Keep your mouth and body clean. You must never smell badly. Wear nice clothes and have a nice hair-style. Join a language school and learn to speak well. Increase your general knowledge - read newspaper and watch TV.
Now you are ready to embark on a journey of romance and thrill. Happy landing! Do email me on your first success.
Author:
Anandrahi
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Anandrahi is a famous writer and educationist of international fame. He has trained thousands of persons in Communication Skills, Personality Development and Art of Successful Life. He has written hundreds of articles and many best-selling books.
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